It's all about perspective.
Here's a sappy little thought for ya.
I (Ashley) was having a rough day. It happens, right? I was feeling a little sorry for myself and struggling with some health problems. For the purpose of perspective I will share some of the negative, self-pitying thoughts:
-I have too many people to take care of to have these problems
-I don't even have a home of my own
-Who knows when we will be uprooted (not that I am even close to feeling "rooted") and move to some new and unknown place with no friends or family
-I never get to go on vacation
-I feel frumpy and hate my hair
... to name a few.
Anyway- I am dwelling on my difficulties and being completely self-centered when my big sister calls me. Certainly not a coincidence. Charity has a such a subtle, calming influence. I started to vent and something I said reminded her of a friend whose baby was born with a cleft pallet and has to have a feeding tube.
It hit me hard. What is my problem? Seriously? I have it so good.
Three healthy babies
Amazing husband who cherishes me
My siblings and parents so close
A (free) place to live while we look for jobs
Everything I need to be comfortable
My own relationship with the Savior
So much to be not only grateful for, but COMPLETELY IN AWE AT.
As my thoughts swirled deeper and deeper, I realized that I am completely happy. I didn't do much to deserve all the goodness I have surrounding me. I feel like I owe an apology to anyone I have complained to. I want to be more grateful. I know I am not the only person to come to this conclusion. No matter what comes our way- we can still be happy when it's hard. We can even be grateful and feel abundance and peace in our own little world. So, it's all about perspective.
Love you, Charity. You have always been just the big sister I need.